How To Increase Erotic Desire In My Committed Relationship

Eroticism thrives on unpredictability, novelty and even a hint of danger.  The most common sexual complaint in long term, monogamous relationships is boredom, diminished sexual quality and lack of enthusiasm for sex.  Without effort, the sexual relationship will become routine and less fulfilling over time.  To keep your sex life alive with passion and erotic pleasure consider the following tips and ideas:

Create Anticipation.  Anticipation fuels eroticism.  Let your partner know that you’ve planned a  sexual surprise that he/she will receive later that week.  The suspense will kill him/her (almost!).

Plan Ahead. Get a babysitter if necessary. Make your relationship the priority and reserve the date.  Don’t let anything get in the way.  

Enjoy Sex Anytime Other Than The End Of An Exhausting Day!  Assuming you work Monday through Friday, engage in sexual activity on the weekends and in the morning, when you’re rested and feel more energy.  Avoid the default of getting around to sex at the very end of a long work day when your’re fatigued and need to get up early the following morning.

Do Something Different.  At Goddess Unleashed we’re committed to helping you keep your relationship hot, fun and sensational.  It’s really easy.  All it takes is a little desire and Goddess Unleashed will do the rest!  Novelty infuses sex with erotic energy and fun. Introduce something new at least every month, or more often!  Just imagine weekly or even daily surprises in the bedroom (or elsewhere)!  When you do something special for your partner it communicates that you care about him and value the special relationship you share.

Go ahead, take a risk and try something you’ve never tried before such as:

Romance Run-Amuck:   Whether at home or away the Bed of Roses Collector’s Edition will transport you and your lover to a place of romantic pleasure.  Scented rose petals, massage tool, tea lights and a romantic guide inside a metal wine bucket complete the evening!

Power Play:  Surprise your lover with Bling Bling Cuffs and Dust Kit. This glamorous kit will spark your inner diva to come out and play.  Be wicked and have fun as you tickle, tantalize and dazzle your darling into willing submission.  This kit includes a jar of edible silver bling bling body dust and delicate, pearl cuffs.

Chocolate Fun:  What’s better than gourmet chocolate?  Better than sex?  Having them both at the same time!  Melt Chocolate Body Fondue is a luxurious chocolate body paint made especially for the body!  Get Creative.  Write naughty words on your lovers chest and have him guess what you’ve written.  Let your lover’s body become your canvas and create art you can lick clean.  

Play A Game:  Discover Your Lover is an erotic game for two that encourages you to take a sexual journey with your partner.  It brings you closer together and shows you surprising sides of yourself and your partner!

Try Vibrating Panties: What a thrill it will be when you hand your lover a remote control for your sexy vibrating panties, worn under a skirt you can give him a peek when no one else is looking.  Make it a date and wear them out to dinner...chances are you’ll be ordering a doggie bag to enjoy dessert at home!  Made from the softest lace and the silkiest satin ribbon, Turn me on Vibrating Pantiesare TOP QUALITY lingerie that will turn you both on.  

Take A Bubble Bath Together:  Slide your bodies into a warm, hot tub filled with Naughty Bubbles Bubble Bath and even surprise him with a personal massager disguised as a rubber duck. Waterproof, the I Rub My Duckie is a great play toy in the bath!  After the bath, give each other an erotic massage with a bwarm sensually scented massage candle where the base of the candle melts at low temperature into a smooth, warm massage oil as the candle burns. Oh la la, that feels good.

With a little desire and Goddess Unleashed at your side the possibilities are endless!  Goddess Unleashed offers new Creative Ideas every month.  In addition, you will find lot’s of useful information and “How-To’s” in our Goddess Guide.  Finally, our Goddess Unleashed Store continually offers the latest, greatest sensual aids.  All of which meet our high standards of exceptional quality, beautiful design and tasteful packaging.

Check out our erotic novels and educational books as well as informational and arousing DVDs.  Explore Eastern sexuality with our Guide to Kama Sutra DVD or Tantra Step-By-Step book.  

Above all, recognize that the more you put into something, including your relationship, the more rewarding it becomes.  Investing your time, energy and creativity into your committed relationship is one of the best investments you can make!  Like a plant, your relationship will thrive when nurtured and wither away when neglected.  The good news is that it’s never too late to create what you want in your life and relationships.  Start living with more passion TODAY!